tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502271107594014252.post132281234950258419..comments2022-02-25T03:25:33.087-08:00Comments on 1 single mom + 5 kids = A beautiful life: The JeansUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502271107594014252.post-10660339202272732272009-03-07T09:34:00.000-08:002009-03-07T09:34:00.000-08:00Well.... you know that I know ALL about this stuff...Well.... you know that I know ALL about this stuff.<BR/><BR/>Girl, you have to decide if the waffling is ok with you. Believe me, I have done all the praying and attempting to move on too... as I'm sure you've read. Its really difficult when our hearts make everything appear exactly as we'd been secretly hoping it would. We see what we want to see.<BR/><BR/>Even as I type this, I'm still asking myself, do I want to meet with Soldier or not? Should I just not answer the phone when he calls? I've actually deleted his number from my phone... which is HUGE for me. But... I still have it memorized. *sigh* Whattaya gonna do?<BR/><BR/>I hope you can enjoy yourself. And maybe take a step back when you're with him to observe. Is he doing what you need or are you trying to form what he's doing into what you need?<BR/><BR/>I need to work on that myself.<BR/><BR/>Good luck.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2502271107594014252.post-32841474920586965292009-03-06T08:29:00.000-08:002009-03-06T08:29:00.000-08:00Oooh, tough one Shannon. The Jeans sounds inconsis...Oooh, tough one Shannon. The Jeans sounds inconsistent and like he's on the fence about his feelings for you so it's hard to have too many expectations where he is concerned. And I wish he would have said, "So WE can spend some time TOGETHER" instead of "so you can spend some time with me". That makes it sound to me like it's about HIM and not so much about YOU. But that's just my take on what little I know from what you write here. Follow your gut I guess.MindyMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01103345017455083144noreply@blogger.com